was just thinking.. take any serial for example..every serial will run around some or the other problem.. i mean nobody can show a serial..a movie..where everything is going on well.. happy and all ..
when a particular problem in a particular serial ends up..serial ends..
isn't it?
is it applicable for "life" also?
problems never end.. sometime this or that will keep coming..may be.. that is what the "syntax" of life..
the only thing in our hands is.."pray"... keep mind busy.. live happily ..
i said "pray" because.. i feel it helps.. to calm our minds ..
somewhere i have heard.. life is like a "theater" we all are artists.... something and all...
then the way serials work..may be our lives also..?
Tuesday, October 21, 2008
Tuesday, September 30, 2008
Answer for everything.. सगळी उत्तर
Many times i realised ..we are created by nature.. a great power..
so all the problems ..questions and their solution and answers must be hidden in nature only..
a small observation in nature would help may be..
when we go in garden..what do we pick up..flowers or thorns?
ofcourse pretty pretty colourful flowers right? then why we fail to pick up good qualities in others?
even i realised it just few hours back...am not saying i saw or used to see good things only in everybody..
but when i drive home..from office.. many thoughts come in mind..
this was just one of them..
i think thats why they say
"attitude" matters
i htink now i realised how?
i used to wonder how ? how?
it helps in keeping ourselves cool.....may be ..isnt it?
Manasi
Thanx for giving some time to read whole .. stuff
so all the problems ..questions and their solution and answers must be hidden in nature only..
a small observation in nature would help may be..
when we go in garden..what do we pick up..flowers or thorns?
ofcourse pretty pretty colourful flowers right? then why we fail to pick up good qualities in others?
even i realised it just few hours back...am not saying i saw or used to see good things only in everybody..
but when i drive home..from office.. many thoughts come in mind..
this was just one of them..
i think thats why they say
"attitude" matters
i htink now i realised how?
i used to wonder how ? how?
it helps in keeping ourselves cool.....may be ..isnt it?
Manasi
Thanx for giving some time to read whole .. stuff
Sunday, September 7, 2008
Neglect
I had got some thought which i thought would help me in having peace of mind..
everybody knows..and says dont expect so that it would hurt you..
so i used to think.. if we see a handicapped person , we dont expect that person to do things for us
instead we only feel like helping him/her ... the same i should think that there are people who are weak at mind ..
so i shouldn't expect from them ..instead help them ..
but at times ..it also becomes so difficult to control your mind from not getting disturbed or upset..
I did something from my heart.. did hardwork for somebody.. to have a nice time on some occasion..
i dont know why.. but i did expect to be praised.. for that ..
but...somebody else gets praising always.....and not me or B ..
i dont know how do people manage to retain faith in good things...
how come ..manipulative.. chalu people get admiration and not us..
everybody knows..and says dont expect so that it would hurt you..
so i used to think.. if we see a handicapped person , we dont expect that person to do things for us
instead we only feel like helping him/her ... the same i should think that there are people who are weak at mind ..
so i shouldn't expect from them ..instead help them ..
but at times ..it also becomes so difficult to control your mind from not getting disturbed or upset..
I did something from my heart.. did hardwork for somebody.. to have a nice time on some occasion..
i dont know why.. but i did expect to be praised.. for that ..
but...somebody else gets praising always.....and not me or B ..
i dont know how do people manage to retain faith in good things...
how come ..manipulative.. chalu people get admiration and not us..
Thursday, July 24, 2008
Guilt
I came across a very good article in one of the magazines about guilty feeling in Women..
it talks about 3 different scenarios where women live in..
Lets say woman x woman y and Woman z
x is working in a very good MNC and at a very good position.. as well
she keeps her child with a maid servant to look after the kid...
she has a about this.... cant give a good and quantity time to her kid...
Woman y is a rank holder Chartered accountant but left her career for the kid when career was at good position good state ..
She thinks to start her job again when her kid became little older and may be able to manage well on his own..
But ..the world had moved so fast that she did not know she was left back so much in terms of knowledge, concepts and may be how the corporate world is about nowadays?
she struggles to get a good career but failed..
Same...guilt ..inside her as well ..shouldnt have gave up on my career so easily.. may be i would have been able to manage both very well..
Third woman z , is a bank employee ..gave up her promotions and higher and better work opportunities
thinking she wouldnt be able to give fair enough time for her family , kids and other things..
but of course it is hard to manage.. hectic.. isnt it?
Another face of the guilt..
she thinks.. if i had chosen one of the things.. she could have given her best to that ..
now? she couldnt do anything to her best ?
May be many of us have some or the other guilt like this...
now next what?
woman x (career woman) ..what happens with her is..
whenever she gets time. ..she feels i need to give this to my family, my kid at its best
so due tot his guilt... she fulfills whatever demand her kid has..
and slowly..kid may be realizes this and start asking everything and anything..
doesnt have a good hold on the mind ...isnt it wrong?
second woman( housewife) expects a lot from her kid, for whom she gave up her career ..
kid should do well in this field in that field. etc etc
and when he/she doesnt do well? she thinks even though she sacrificed her career and gave time to kid..
she failed to make him best..something wrong in her upbringing? she takes this entirely as her mistake
why????
The author explains..
why do all the women think or expects that they are super human beings? or the should be
We are humans..and so we do tend to do mistakes..
But the main problem here is the attitude towards things..
we think that the entire responsibility is Mother's ?
If the kid does well..it is a kid's hard work intelligence ..and if the kid fails? mother's responsibility
...
Author explains ... the entire attitude is wrong..
it is both the father and mother who are responsible for whatever the kid is...
It is women who take all these responsibilities on themselves and so do the Men ..
they too start thinking may be in their subconscious mind itself..that it is wife, mother ..their responsibility..
Stop having guilt inside now..
Live your life happily... sharing all the responsibilities equally ........
it talks about 3 different scenarios where women live in..
Lets say woman x woman y and Woman z
x is working in a very good MNC and at a very good position.. as well
she keeps her child with a maid servant to look after the kid...
she has a about this.... cant give a good and quantity time to her kid...
Woman y is a rank holder Chartered accountant but left her career for the kid when career was at good position good state ..
She thinks to start her job again when her kid became little older and may be able to manage well on his own..
But ..the world had moved so fast that she did not know she was left back so much in terms of knowledge, concepts and may be how the corporate world is about nowadays?
she struggles to get a good career but failed..
Same...guilt ..inside her as well ..shouldnt have gave up on my career so easily.. may be i would have been able to manage both very well..
Third woman z , is a bank employee ..gave up her promotions and higher and better work opportunities
thinking she wouldnt be able to give fair enough time for her family , kids and other things..
but of course it is hard to manage.. hectic.. isnt it?
Another face of the guilt..
she thinks.. if i had chosen one of the things.. she could have given her best to that ..
now? she couldnt do anything to her best ?
May be many of us have some or the other guilt like this...
now next what?
woman x (career woman) ..what happens with her is..
whenever she gets time. ..she feels i need to give this to my family, my kid at its best
so due tot his guilt... she fulfills whatever demand her kid has..
and slowly..kid may be realizes this and start asking everything and anything..
doesnt have a good hold on the mind ...isnt it wrong?
second woman( housewife) expects a lot from her kid, for whom she gave up her career ..
kid should do well in this field in that field. etc etc
and when he/she doesnt do well? she thinks even though she sacrificed her career and gave time to kid..
she failed to make him best..something wrong in her upbringing? she takes this entirely as her mistake
why????
The author explains..
why do all the women think or expects that they are super human beings? or the should be
We are humans..and so we do tend to do mistakes..
But the main problem here is the attitude towards things..
we think that the entire responsibility is Mother's ?
If the kid does well..it is a kid's hard work intelligence ..and if the kid fails? mother's responsibility
...
Author explains ... the entire attitude is wrong..
it is both the father and mother who are responsible for whatever the kid is...
It is women who take all these responsibilities on themselves and so do the Men ..
they too start thinking may be in their subconscious mind itself..that it is wife, mother ..their responsibility..
Stop having guilt inside now..
Live your life happily... sharing all the responsibilities equally ........
Monday, July 21, 2008
Puneri pati
Punyat eka building war 1 board vachla..
"Sanjeevan vidyalay
Fakta napas vidyarthyan karta"
asach ajun ek board vachla hota ..eka class cha board hota
"Ithe shikawnya ghetlya jatil...
pachwi te M.com"
:)
maja ahe na?
Pune tithe kay une ashi mhan ahe ti kahi khoti nahi :)
"Sanjeevan vidyalay
Fakta napas vidyarthyan karta"
asach ajun ek board vachla hota ..eka class cha board hota
"Ithe shikawnya ghetlya jatil...
pachwi te M.com"
:)
maja ahe na?
Pune tithe kay une ashi mhan ahe ti kahi khoti nahi :)
Friday, June 13, 2008
Process
While working , sometimes it becomes really difficult to stop our distraction due to the upcoming thoughts inside......
i have a bad habbit of recollecting things..especially the bad moments.. and feel sad( unconciously) about it
कधी कधी विचार चांगल्या दिशेकडे वळतात तर कधी नको त्या ।
but just thought ..that if we go through the bad patch of few things..that might be the actual procedure....of becoming a good human........
just like an iron ore has to go through such a tremendous heat to become a strengthfull iron to build a nice home:)
and the ones who dont get a chance to go through such pain....what happend to it?
they cant make a good home for sure:)
Manasi
i have a bad habbit of recollecting things..especially the bad moments.. and feel sad( unconciously) about it
कधी कधी विचार चांगल्या दिशेकडे वळतात तर कधी नको त्या ।
but just thought ..that if we go through the bad patch of few things..that might be the actual procedure....of becoming a good human........
just like an iron ore has to go through such a tremendous heat to become a strengthfull iron to build a nice home:)
and the ones who dont get a chance to go through such pain....what happend to it?
they cant make a good home for sure:)
Manasi
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